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Popular Funeral Poems To Memorialise Your Loved One

Choosing a song or poem for a funeral can be a most difficult task if the deceased hasn’t left instructions for you explaining what they would like. Below we’ve curated a short list of some of the more popular funeral poems for your convenience, so if you’re looking for inspiration for how best to memorialise your loved one, take a look at our suggestions below.

Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep. 

I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain. 

When you wake in the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night. 

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
(Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!)

  • Mary Elizabeth Frye (1932)

Don’t Cry For Me

Don't cry for me now I have died, for I'm still here I'm by your side,
My body's gone but my soul is here, please don't shed another tear,
I am still here I'm all around, only my body lies in the ground.
I am the snowflake that kisses your nose,
I am the frost, that nips your toes.
I am the sun, bringing you light,
I am the star, shining so bright.
I am the rain, refreshing the earth,
I am the laughter, I am the mirth.
I am the bird, up in the sky,
I am the cloud, that's drifting by.
I am the thoughts, inside your head,
While I'm still there, I can't be dead.

  • Anonymous (Unknown)

Angel (Funeral poem for a child)

Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, dear, was you.

Angel wings, upon the clouds,
Your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little angel,
No more tears you have to weep.

Little prayers are sent to you,
The short life you led;
Your family will never forget you,
So rest your little head.

I know God will look after you,
Now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon,
Your legacy will survive.

You’re beautiful, you’re endless,
Now stretch your wings and fly,
You’re loved by so many,
It will never be goodbye.

Close your pretty eyes,
No more tears, just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully,
We know you did your best.

  • Christelle Dardagos (Unknown)

My Journey’s Just Begun (the poem/reader’s perspective can be changed by swapping out me/my/I etc for he/she/they pronouns)

Don't think of me as gone away
My journey's just begun
Life holds so many facets
This earth is but one

Just think of me as resting
From the sorrows and the tears
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years

Think of how I must be wishing
That you could know today
How nothing but your sadness
Can really go away

And think of me as living
In the hearts of those I touched
For nothing loved is ever lost
And I know I was loved so much

  • Ellen Brenneman (Unknown)

He Is Gone/She Is Gone (pronouns can be swapped or replaced with the neutral they/them)

You can shed tears that he is gone,
Or you can smile because he has lived.

You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left.

Your heart can be empty because you can't see him,
Or you can be full of the love that you shared.

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

You can remember him and only that he is gone,
Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what he would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

  • David Harkins (1981)

These are just a few examples of potential poems you could use to represent the life and love of your close friend or family member. These words can be used to celebrate their lives as part of the funeral, or displayed in private as a personal reminder of your loved one. If you’ve opted for a direct cremation with no funeral service, poignant poems and songs can be the perfect way to remember and celebrate the deceased at home gatherings and family celebrations.

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